08 Jul

Bit lengthy? An interesting read? all the same….. only for those who carry that streak of humility in them to still class themselves as a student of Life…..

2000 years ago a Tamil Poet / Writer, called Tiruvalluvar wrote a string of well-versed poetry, which in South India is commonly referred to as Tirukkural. 

It touches on various aspects of Human Psychology and Behaviour.

Today, with the advancement in science & technology we seem to be still driving these fundamentals through enhanced learning & development channels.  Amazing to say how relevant those words of wisdom were 2000 years ago….

Some points from the Tirukkural to ponder over ……. Amazing how relevant it is today……

A translated extract from the TIRUKKAL:
 1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you overreact too harshly to their inappropriate behaviour.
 2. If your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you’ve lost them.
 3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advise them more than you encourage them.
 4. If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.
 5. If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don’t let them chose what they want.
 6. If your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly.
 7. If your child does not respect other people’s feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them.
 8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehavior and you give little attention to good behavior.
 9. If your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they don’t successfully complete it.
 10. If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.
 11. If your child is openly defiant, it is because you openly threaten to do something but don’t follow through.
 12. If your child is secretive, it is because they don’t trust that you won’t blow things out of proportion.
 13. If your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others and think it’s normal behavior.
 14. If your child doesn’t listen to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to jump to conclusions
 15. If your child rebels it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right

Thank You
David Nair

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